Saving for a big family cost in the UK does not have to wipe out your safety...
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Saving for a big family cost in the UK does not have to wipe out your safety net. This guide shows how separate savings pots keep your goal on track, then stress-tests your budget with an awkward month of bills, repairs or reduced pay.